"You can quit your job anytime you wish now. You do not even try to bargain with yourself about quitting your old job or temporary career because you know that your time is better devoted to more important stuff ... helping and empowering people in your areas of interest... consciously avoiding prolonged dole outs if possible."
"A school kid was asked the question...do you like math?.. The kid answered... I am the only one at school who likes math... Everyone else I know hates math. They don't enjoy thinking about numbers... He was asked a follow up question.. So what do you want to say to your friends about it? ... The kid answered candidly .. Well they better find ways to make learning math more fun coz they will need it when they grow up.."
Fly Stage
Now riding on 4-wheels rather than on 2-wheels. Make sure you read about the "Crawl Stage", the "Walk Stage" and the "Run Stage"..
Emotions
These may be among your more prominent emotions.
You have achieved interdependence and self sufficiency. You show people tools to cope up. You can cope calmly and effectively.
You can manage rejection and know where it is coming from. You are highly empathic with good communications skills. You are sensitive to the needs of others and are capable to provide them with what they need.
You invest much time and energy with satisfying your partner or friends, and empowering them sooner than later
If the other person finally becomes empowered and interdependent with your humble help even without them knowing it, you feel joy.
You can really make lasting commitments after careful thought and reflection Fear is nearly non existent. Love takes over.
Bad habits are nearly gone but their lessons are well remembered .
Time may begin to slow down again. You are still very motivated /driven. You enrich your heart through values, knowledge and skills. Your values, knowledge and skills are returning satisfactory results.
You feel more confident about investing and wish to share the abundance and blessings that you have with others.
Compassion, charity, a genuine concern for human welfare ….. Your small successes in achieving goal after goal after goal leads you ever closer to your dream and higher purpose in life. You can almost touch your dreams which are much larger than you and are not about you.
You are spending comfortably now that you are financially independent.
You feel it unnecessary to live below your means at this point because of the silly fact that your simple lifestyle can be supported by your growing tax contribution.
Living below your means is an old habit that is hard but not that difficult to break.
You can quit your job anytime you wish now. You do not even try to bargain with yourself about quitting your old job or temporary career because you know that your time is better devoted to more important stuff ... helping and empowering people in your areas of interests...avoiding prolonged dole outs if possible.
Your old job (if you had any) is just a back up or plan B.
Your financial plan is serious and you may even be planning to hire professional financial planners for your growing projects. Your financial plans are very detailed and hard to retain by memory.
You take advantage of good insurance policies. You and your assets are fully covered by insurance. That is partly because you know how to control and manage risks. Later you will replace those insurance with your Values.
Health is one of your top concerns.
You keep the habit of "paying yourself first" reserving the money/ideas for future bigger investments.
You are passionate in empowering everyone willing and able hoping that you replicate yourself in like minded people.
Aside from empowering others, you can not do anything else but empathize with stagnating people in the complacency stage who are trying to avoid the retirement phase they dread because of their mindset. To those who cannot break loose from an old mindset, you still try to help provide them with work that they can cling to.
Goals
Your salary more than meets your basic needs. But you need the leverage of partnership to help other people beyond your current reach.
You may plan to quit your job soon so you can start spending more time with your family and other more important things other than work (job).
Your dream is a lot bigger.
You found a higher purpose and meaning in life.
You live to enjoy some luxuries which are usually related to food and parties, travel, cultural development, beauty and health...care of your residual income.
You seriously plan for immediate retirement from your job.
Your asset allocation is far from being conservative.
Emergency fund can support you for months to years without any sort of income.
You know that personal insurance will protect you as the primary income generator while you make your initial run.
You continue to save and invest for tangible and intangible wealth to help empower others.
You get the attention of the "established value-poor cash-rich abusive people" .
Your for-profit and non-profit projects are beginning to enter the global scene.
Asset flow pattern
Your cash flow pattern begins to follow that of the rare genuine asset-rich people. Your salary/active income/earned income is your secondary income. Passive income shoulders all your basic living expenses as well as luxuries.
You have solid wealth building assets rewarding you with a genuinely rich lifestyle.
Your values strengthen other related values. You have identified and nearly developed all necessary skills you need.
You house is now designed for practicality and utmost safety. So as your cars.
You attract opportunities. Banks and friends want you to take their money and grow it for them.
You have more than adequate resources or credit in case of emergency.
Skills
You have developed life skills and business skills.
You can easily inspire people to follow their own dreams.
You talk with their spirits rather than their emotions.
You can easily convince other people that your ideas are always bigger and better.
You know how to manage your team's talents. You continue practicing/ sharpening your business and life skills which include selling, buying/investing, leadership, communication, money management, financing, accountability, planning, quantification, innovation, orchestration, etc.
You have the capacity to build, support and maintain global organizations with the help of local and/or international partners.
You just don't read about history.. You make history.
Team
You have almost if not already put together the best team.
You hire the best professionals that money can hire ...people who can protect your assets.
You look up to your mentor (if any) who has more solid experience. Your family and even your most doubting friends seek your advice. You can pick up valuable lessons from kids.
In the comment section I MAY post recommendations or directions you can take to sharpen your values
Finding the right partner in life or business or project
ReplyDeleteThe most important question really is if your prospect or potential partner has the appropriate heart ...mindset and skillset ... that it takes to let you live the life you need and want... of course they should want and love to be with you in the first place.